This was a quick read and tissues were required only in the beginning and the very ending. Margo explains in the Afterward of her book that she was inspired to write this book because her mother had melanoma and died nine days after diagnosis. Gulp.
So before I start my review, I'm compelled to give you an important Public Service Announcement. Wear your sunscreen. Even if you tan easily. Get yourself to a dermatologist for a yearly skin checkup. If something on your skin looks strange to you, point it out to your dermatologist. And be persistent.
You see, I was diagnosed with melanoma over 14 years ago. I found a strange mole on my foot and my dermatologist told me it was okay, since it was symmetrical and smaller than the typical warning signs, even though it was black and raised.
I don't fit into the parameters of what dermatologists look at when seeing melanoma. I tan easily. I think I only had a sunburn once when I went to Bermuda in my early 20's. And the mole was small, about the size of this @. But, I never remembered this mole on my foot, and I was pretty insistent about that. The dermatologist finally agreed it should be removed by a surgeon. Typically, moles are removed by the dermatologist, but since there is very little skin on the foot, a surgeon was required.
I will never forget the phone call from the surgeon, who wanted me to come into the office to discuss my results. You know the answer is never good when you're asked to come into the office. Thankfully, it was in the early stages, called melanoma in situ. In this Stage 0 (Zero) Melanoma, the cancer is found in the epidermis (outer layer of the skin) only. After a second surgery, with a total of almost two inches of skin removed from my foot from the two surgeries, I found out all the cancer was gone.
If you care anything about yourself and your loved ones, get an annual skin (head to toe) checkup. Sure it's uncomfortable baring all for fifteen minutes or so, but it is well worth it if you can catch anything in the early stages. Keep in mind, melanoma is an easy cancer to treat, if caught early. And remember to slather sunscreen on yourself and your children, especially between 10am and 4pm, when the UV radiation is the strongest.
Cures for Heartbreak by Margo Rabb
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30 minute review
Total time: 3 1/2 hours
Fifteen year old Mia Pearlman is at a total loss when her mother unexpectedly dies from melanoma twelve days after diagnosis. "If she dies, I'll die," Mia writes in her journal. That line did me in. I was expecting a book that would keep me crying to the very end. Instead, there was refreshing bits of sassiness and dark humor weaved in throughout this book.
Mia deals with her mother's death differently from her dad and sister, Alex. Mia's school work declines, she wears her mother's clothes and she sees her mother in just about everything. But life goes on. Alex leaves for college. And Mia's dad meets and marries another woman, a cancer survivor. Enter conflict and betrayal.
Mia finds unexpected hope in her crush for Cancer Guy, Sasha. "If grief had a permanence, then didn't also love?" Very nice. Turns out, despite the layers of sadness and grief, Cures for Heartbreak by Margo Rabb is an easy, enjoyable read.
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Book #2 started last night: Beige by Cecil Castellucci