I am in total peace right now, despite a raging headache. My dear husband has taken the children off on a seashore adventure. I am left with some quiet and so much to do.
I must say, this was a relatively tough week. There was so much sadness and contemplation. So it was nice to be able to visit Robin Brande for a much needed dose of The Friday List (nice things you did for yourself this week). I thought I'd need to pull at straws to find something nice I did for myself, but there was much to be happy for.
A Wrung Sponge and 7-Imp have tributes for Poetry Friday about praying for hope for the students at Virginia Tech and links to the text and video for Nikki Giovanni's Convocation Address.
The links below, courtesy of The New York Times, share a little bit about the beautiful young individuals that lost their lives last week at Virginia Tech. May God bless them and watch over their families as they try to find hope in their grief and loss.
Ross Abdallah Alameddine
Kevin P. Granata
Rachael Elizabeth Hill
Emily Jane Hilscher
Matthew Joseph La Porte
Henry J. Lee
Lauren Ashley McCain
Daniel Patrick O'Neil
Juan Ramon Ortiz
Minal Hiralal Panchal
Erin Nicole Peterson
Daniel Perez (Daniel Perez Cueva)
Michael Steven Pohle, Jr.
Mary Karen Read
Leslie Geraldine Sherman
Nicole Regina White
Cho's family issued a statement full of grief and agony over the Virginia Tech horror. The Daily Kos: State of the Nation asks people to include Cho's family in their thoughts and prayers. I agree with this one, his family are victims in this as well. They are reeling from the horror of this tragedy and have much guilt, grief and shame to overcome. Please, let's be respectful of them. Not only have they lost a family member; they now have the weight of the Virginia Tech tragedy on their shoulders.
Korean Americans have been so upset about this tragedy, they have been apologizing for Cho's act of horrendous violence, and worried about the repercussions. Author Jenny Han, one of The Longstockings, asks Why? Here are two blogs I discovered (Thanks Dad!) of Americans who are living in Korea and their take on things: The Marmot's Hole has a post which is updated with new information regarding the shooting at Virginia Tech and the reactions from Koreans. Scribblings of the Metropolitician has interesting posts. He's an American expat living in Korea, is half Korean, but...is he for Korea or against? One particular post I found intriguing is Who Is This Guy? which explains why he writes the way he writes.
It has been written that Cho emulated a horror film. Cho's English professors, one which was Nikki Giovanni, banned him from their classes because of his disturbed writing. Clearly writing is subjective. What one person considers to be disturbed writing will be another person's form creative expression. Which led me to wonder When Is Writing Considered to Be Warped?
This has been such a sad time. There are so many questions. Very few answers. So much promise lost. So much grief and anguish to absorb. I hope we don't ever see this again. Ever.